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Rabu, 16 Mei 2012

Dating Tips For The Distance

 
"Some say, long-distance dating is not safe and would not be durable. Agree with that statement? "
 Long-distance dating is not guaranteed to be durable and safe, hmm ... who's to say? Some couples have come through it well and end up with marriage. How does that relationship remain durable and happily ever after? What is the recipe?
Have a commitment to mutually agreed
When you agree to establish a relationship with him, you certainly know the consequences when not able to meet every day. Start from the cost of communication that will surely swell, the cost of a visit, belief and not easily jealous and suspicious of the activities and friends. Well, when 'yes I do'moment the first of these, you and he must have an agreement and mutually aware of the consequences of each. Make a planning brief for the relationship can work well. Such as: when one spouse has to go, at least leave a message in advance so as not to cause concern.
When there is a misconception that appears, go back on commitments already made that are not easily have the word 'break' came out.
Do not have a secret
The point here, you and your partner should be honest about the condition and their respective activities. So when you have overtime and could not accompany him chatting on the phone, he knows what your reasons.
What about email passwords, etc. socmed? Oh well, it still must be their secret for a mature relationship can maintain their privacy as well. Even if you know what email password, socmed and so forth, you still have to respect privacy and not nosy partner and stalking.
Give suprise
At certain moments, another suprise given that the relationship is not monotonous. Not be suprise that expensive, but can be a simple surprise that it made him remember forever.
For example: send him a box of handmade chocolates on your own results. The form may not be as sweet and as good as the chocolate sold in stores, but at least he will remember that you are making sincere love.



Regular communication
Speaking of communication, you do not have to make a definite schedule of hours, as this will only be burdensome and contentious. Just make sure on the sidelines of you are still communicating with him. Even through a short message telling you will be busy in meetings all day.
No less important in the communication, not how long you talked with him, but what about the quality of your conversation, so do not feel bored and boring.
Time to visit ...
Do not let the weight of the cost. You and he should have a specific budget for each other and visit each other in certain times. However you could not meet and physical contact with him.
Maybe you and he can memplanningkan in advance so they can save money by ordering tickets / transportation in advance with low prices. Or meet in the city in the middle distance you and him.
Stay social
Just because you and your partner at the far end of the week then you dwell on the phone with each other and locked himself in his room. You still have to have activities and hangout with friends. Build relationships and friendships also help boost self-confidence.
Similarly, when she wanted to hangout with friends, you still have to give him confidence.
Have a future planning
Trust, loyalty is at hand. Now is the time setting your goal and him. Must have at least a couple planning ahead for a more serious relationship, which will help strengthen and maintain relationships with one another, though far apart. Relationship without goals and objectives, will only make you feel bored and hung up.

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