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Rabu, 16 Mei 2012

7 Problems Most Often Make It Arguing Couple

The quarrel is a matter that can not be inevitable in any relationship. Arguing with a lover are very reasonable. What matters, how you and he could face in order not to continue to drag on.

As reported by the All Women Stalk, here's seven most common problems that make lovers quarrel, and how to react to it.


1. MoneyArguing because money is not only experienced by those who are married. When they were dating, the couple can debate the issue of money. For example, he complains about her habit of spending money shopping, ask where the couple worked on a salary or how much money deposit in the account of her lover. Money is a sensitive issue to talk about lovers, so you should not talk unless you and he had intended to marry.
2. JealousIt is not surprising really, but jealousy is one of the main causes of the couple arguing. When the lover found the way with another woman or being nice to his girlfriend, there would be resentment. Vice versa, the he also would be jealous if they see you hanging out with male friends. Jealousy is very fair in love, but do not develop into a blind jealousy that can ruin a relationship.
3. DissentSometimes when a relationship too long, you will realize that there is a mismatch between the two of you. Whether it's a matter of differences in hobbies, work, friendship and life style. Can indeed unite romantically differences, but if it causes you and he quarreled constantly, you should start thinking to reevaluate the relationship is being undertaken.
4. PriorityOften conflicting priorities between the pair, if what you and he preferred different. He prioritized the relationship, while you consider more important work. Lovers attach great importance to his family, while you want to get more attention than anything. If you want lasting relationship, you should first agree on what is most important thing for both of you.
5. PastEveryone will feel uncomfortable if his past relationship are always prying mention, let alone one who brought it up is a partner in the present. Fights that often occur, usually caused by one lover to compare with his ex, or he's constantly asking about past relationships. Bak a mirror, the past should be viewed only occasionally to step back as a better reflection for the future.
6. StressWho are the people in this world who never experience stress? These psychiatric disorders can lead to a pair of lovers quarrel. Often a person is exposed lampiasan rage because his girlfriend is under pressure at work or have family problems. If the stress of whack, it's better to ask your lover for a time had not met until a clear mind, so the problem is not to interfere with the office romance.
7. Going OutTrigger a fight that often happens is to go out. Lover would like to invite you to go with friends, you say no, but it turns out he went. Tofu lover can still go have fun without you, can cause irritation and ignored. Nothing wrong with accompanying lovers to hang with his friends. You can make friends even more.

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